Thursday, March 28, 2019

SEX AND POLITICS: An Unusual Finding



I heard on the news the other day about some study suggesting that many millennials care more about politics than sex.  Fortunately, many of those millennials will never have children.  The study prompted a sex therapist to comment that dating strictly within one’s political party is making people too comfortable.

I wonder how someone goes about creating such a study.  What questions do they ask the participants, and how do they come to their conclusions?  
 
Still, there probably is legitimacy to this study.  And to be fair to millennials, they’re probably not the only ones who think like this.  I’ve recently witnessed individuals ending years of friendship over political disagreements.  In conversations with total strangers (workplace or social settings, restaurants and bars), I’ve heard people volunteer their opinions on anything from abortion to climate change while assuming that I am in total agreement.  And the result?  People appear foolish doing this.

People appear foolish when they can’t see more than one side to any issue.  Whether they’re from left, right or center, I imagine them picturing themselves as the champions of freedom … by wanting everyone to think as they do.

I heard once that there are two prongs to conformity in America:


  • Corporate identity.  Since the 1960s, corporate advertising has turned Americans envious.  To fit in, we have to drive the right car and wear the right clothes.  Even own a cellphone.
  • Governmental oversight.  With a $5 trillion budget, the federal government can reach just about everything – including private behavior.  (The irony is that the most vocal critics of the current administration propose to make the government bigger.)


It comes down to the same thing in either case: we’re afraid.  In the 20th Century, we followed lots of tyrants out of fear.  In the 21st Century, we join groups because we’re afraid of being alone.   To belong, we endorse causes, products and messages while not giving it much thought.  Sometimes we do this in places like Facebook and Twitter.  (Facebook, by the way, now has a net worth of $470 billion and takes in close to $56 billion each year.)

We seem to be doing well at making each other miserable.  In the last month, we’ve heard of people buying admissions for their children to enroll in prestigious colleges.  There was another mass killing at a mosque in New Zealand where the killer filmed the shooting to appear on Facebook.  There’s more talk about immigration and building a wall.  And the Mueller Report is another argument starter.

If millennials (or anyone else) do care more about politics than sex, it makes me wonder if they have lost all sense of fun.  Maybe they are more afraid of disapproval than being alive.

March 28, 2019



© Robert S. Miller 2019

Sunday, February 24, 2019

GREEN BOOK (2018): Friendship with a Lonely Black Artist



The film Green Book, a relatively non-controversial film, is the subject of controversy.  Hollywood loves stirring up real or imagined controversy to keep attention upon itself.  So do many film critics who wish to appear relevant.

In this 130-minute movie biopic, Don “Doc” Shirley (Mahershala Ali), a black classical pianist, hires Tony “Lip” Vallelonga (Viggo Mortensen), a bouncer at a bar, for protection as he goes on a tour to play at a number of venues in the south.  The movie takes place in the early 1960s.  Though at first ill at ease in the company of each other, they become the closest of friends after many close calls.  Both are relieved to be leaving the south by the end of the film.

Besides Don and Tony, the only major character in the film is Dolores (Linda Cardellini), Tony’s wife.  She’s the only one who seems to understand early on that Tony is a better person than what we at first see. When Tony is not caught up in acting a part, he is capable of sincere feeling.

Though popular with movie audiences, reviews of the film are mixed.  Some reviewers, unsure about what they see on the screen, feel the need be on the safe side of any controversy.  It’s difficult to take seriously such film critics to begin with.  They like to describe the film as another Driving Ms. Daisy, and claim Green Book is really about a white savior upstaging the central black character on the screen.  In point of fact, Mortenson portrays Tony as a character with racist tendencies who nevertheless comes around to admire the black man he is there to protect.  Tony grows up overtime throughout the course of the film.

More to the point, the character of Shirley shows a great deal more complexity and depth than some reviewers (and even other Hollywood actors including Bill Murray) seem to acknowledge.  He is neither stereotypical nor a sidekick for Tony.  Shirley, a black classical pianist who also apparently was gay deciding to make a tour of the south in the early 1960s, was certainly an anomaly.  He knew what he was getting into when taking the tour, and decided to go ahead with it in any case.  How could such an individual not feel lonely or misunderstood at certain points in time?

Family members of Don “Doc” Shirley, one of the two main characters in this biopic, object to the movie as not being true to the facts.  The family felt that the film wrongly projected Shirley, played by Mahershala Ali, as lonely and cut off from the black community.  They mention the real-life Shirley’s involvement in the Selma march as evidence of this.  Also, they claim there was no real friendship between Shirley and Tony “Lip” Vallelonga, played by Viggo Mortensen.  They describe the relationship as an “employer-employee relationship.”

I sympathize with such criticism if it was indeed true.  But it’s not clear if the family got the facts right.  Don Shirley stated in the 2011 documentary, Lost Bohemia that: “I trusted him [Tony Vallelonga] implicitly. Tony, not only was he my driver.  We never had an employer-employee relationship.  We got to be friendly with one another.”

Putting aside controversies, Peter Farrelly directs a straightforward and overall entertaining film.  Green Book is also a bit too predictable.  Going in, we know that the two main characters will become friends by the film’s end.

Still, what is refreshing about this movie as compared to a film like If Beale Street Could Talk, is that Green Book contains humor.  Humor is almost entirely missing in a Hollywood that takes itself far too seriously.  While Mortenson gets to say most of the comic lines, Mahershala Ali provides his share of humor as well.  More importantly, the two characters who have almost nothing in common, form a credible if difficult friendship.  Green Book is not a film that is cynical or crass.

© Robert S. Miller 2019
February 24, 2019

Wednesday, January 30, 2019

IF BEALE STREET COULD TALK (2018): Growing Up Black with America’s Penal System



While a story about an innocent couple in love, the story of If Beale Street Could Talk is unremittingly sad.  It’s only uplifting because the viewer comes to sympathize with all of the main characters.

Tish (Kiki Layne), a 19-year-old black adult living in Harlem, falls in love with Fonny (Stephan James), a young black man who will soon face false allegations of raping a Puerto Rican woman (Emily Rios) who immigrated to the United States.  Facing a life sentence, Fonny learns that Tish is carrying his child while he is in prison.

Fonny ultimately never gets to face his accuser.  In fact, the accuser never identifies Fonny as the rapist until coached on how to pick him out in a police lineup.  The two individuals who were with Fonny at the time the rape allegedly went down were Tish and their friend, Daniel (Brian Tyree Henry).  Yet Tish is presumed bias.  And Daniel, with his own criminal record, does not make for a credible witness in the eyes of white authorities.  

While Fonny’s young white lawyer fights for acquittal and while Tish’s mother, Sharon (Regina King), travels to Puerto Rico to speak with the accuser (who has since fled the country), Fonny never receives a fair trial.  No one is successful in getting the accuser to retract her story, and the woman’s disappearance from the country prevents anyone from contradicting her story in court.  Yet despite all obstacles, the couple remain together and never betray each other’s trust.  By the end of the film, some half-a-dozen years later, Fonny is still in prison receiving visits from Tish and their young son (Kaden Byrd).

Trish’s family is incredibly supportive to her throughout this ordeal, despite the fact that she has a child outside of wedlock.  Sharon, in particular, is always as Tish’s side.  But outside of Fonny’s father, Frank (Michael Beach), Fonny’s family want nothing more to do with her or the unborn child.  They consider her a seducer and a sinner.  Frank, estranged from his unnamed wife (Aunjanue Ellis) – a religious zealot, and apparently estranged from his daughters as well, works with Tish’s father, Joseph (Colman Domingo), to raise money for Tish and Fonny.  The two fathers attempt to help in any way they can.

A great portion of the film deals with the rigged system that will not give a young man like Fonny a chance.  It doesn’t matter that Fonny is an intelligent and polite young man.  He’s a sculptor and is fluent in a number of languages.  Even so, the authorities do not judge Fonny by anything other than the color of his skin.  Even without a witness to testify against Fonny, his fate remains in the hands of a racist police officer (Ed Skrein).  Fonny eventually pleads guilty in return for a lesser sentence (though it’s not much of a plea deal considering that Fonny is still in prison several years later).
While mostly applauded by critics, I have mixed feelings about If Beale Street Could Talk.  The acting of Kiki Layne and especially Regina King stands out.  And at no time during the film is the plight of the two main characters treated with anything but sensitivity.  We always find the main characters likeable.  What makes this particularly remarkable is the fact that the viewer never feels manipulated by the storyline or the film direction.  Director Barry Jenkins does not use gimmicks to make the movie feel maudlin.

Yet though the movie is less than two hours (119 minutes to be exact), it feels much longer.  Someone else I know while sharing their view of the movie mentioned how she could not wait for the film to end. She didn’t want to see the two lovers staring at each other through glass window during prison visits anymore.  And indeed, we continue to see that scene over and over again throughout the film.  There is little humor in the film to break up the feeling of oppression.  And though the two characters are still together at the end, they remain separated by prison walls.

James Baldwin wrote the novel If Beale Street Could Talk for which the film’s based.  The film remains loyal to his vision.  Baldwin was a complex man – an incredibly intelligent and gifted black man from a poor Harlem neighborhood.  His father was a minister who happened also to be abusive.  This led to Baldwin turning away from his father’s teachings.  

Baldwin was probably America’s most prominent 20th Century black writer outside of Richard Wright.  Yet ironically, much of his fame came about due to his criticism of Wright in Baldwin’s book of essays, Notes of a Native Son.  Baldwin, who in his youth thought only the highest of Wright, criticized (possibly unjustly) the latter’s novel, Native Son, for featuring a protagonist, Bigger Thomas, who was angry and extremely violent.  Baldwin may not have been able to separate Bigger Thomas from its creator, Richard Wright.  Baldwin obviously was hoping for the creation of more positive black characters.

But while even Richard Wright did not want to see Bigger Thomas emulated, Bigger Thomas was not a passive character.  Comparatively speaking, the characters of Fonny and Tish, for all of their gentleness and virtue, remain passive and practically resigned to their fate.  

I can’t speak to Fonny’s taking a plea in order to gain a shorter sentence.  For all practical reasons, it’s understandable why he did do this.  Also, we have to admire these characters for their perseverance.  But the film and the story ultimately offers no solution.  So despite it being thoughtful and even intelligent film that does not make viewers shed any false tears, it remains an unrelentingly sorrowful movie to watch.

January 30, 2019
© Robert S. Miller 2019